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Rimming: A Clonezone guide to using your mouth and tongue

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Rimming (or Analingus if you’re being technical) is thought of as both a sexual act itself and also as a foreplay act prior to using your fingerstoys or penis. If it’s done correctly, Rimming can be a really fun and pleasurable act on its own. It takes you at your most vulnerable at one of the most sensitive spots on your body – your butt hole.

Here we will give you (non-patronising) list of tips to help you enjoy that tongue on butt-hole action.

 

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Latino Rim fun time c/o GifFactoryXXX

  • Take steps to relax. Sometimes it can be a little uncomfortable having someone’s face in a part of your body that isn’t always associated with pleasant smells and hygiene. So take time to have a good shower or bath before being rimmed, paying special attention to any pubic hair you may have around your anus. Some guys don’t mind a bit of sweat – and some do.
  • Entrance. Clean your entrance! Use your fingers and a little bit of lube to get them inside, to make sure the entrance is nice and fresh for your partner. Alternatively, douche beforehand.
  • Maintenance. If you like your hole hairless, shave or wax your hole a few hours before being rimmed. Not only will it assure its smooth, you’ll find your anus is more sensitive when the hair is gone.
  • Sensitivity. I find that having a hot bath or shower before rimming wakes your sensitive spots up and helps enhance the sensitivity of your anus. It almost tickles more to have a tongue down there. You’ll see what we mean. Making sure you are fully dry before being rimmed helps too (use a hairdryer if your bum cheeks are keeping it a little moist).
Rimming fun via This Bi Guy

Rimming fun via This Bi Guy

  • More than licking. Unlike other pleasure points on your body, the anus rarely get’s over sensitive from being licked and played with. Mix it up! Try sucking, nibbling and even chewing on the anus (gently, of course).
  • Dexterity. Use your tongue with strength and apply similar skills you use when giving oral sex. The deeper you push your tongue and stronger the rhythms you move your tongue in – the better it will feel. Don’t be afraid to go deep. Build up strength and pressure over time for an explosive experience for your partner. Remember how sensitive this area is, they will feel everything.
  • Breath. Use your breath to enhance tingling pleasure and to refresh the sensitivity of the anus and entrance.
  • Surrounding pleasure points. Bring other areas of the anatomy into rimming play-time. Use your mouth, teeth and hands on the cock, balls and perineum during the session. Licking, chewing and rubbing on the perineum is always a lot of fun when rimming.
Duo Pleasure

Duo Pleasure

POSITIONS! 

Just like with sex, your position can change the way rimming feels. A lot of this is to do with how your muscles relax in certain positions. So let’s focus on a few for maximum pleasure:

  • Doggy. This position is quite self explanatory but its benefits are felt by both giver and receiver. Bend over and arch your back as much as you can – this way your cheeks will spread and give any giver who likes butts a great view. We recommend doing this on a bed, or at the end of your bed whilst spreading and laying your legs out wide. Not being able to see what he is up to is an added thrill. Unless you strategically place mirrors in-front of you (I’m giving myself ideas now).
  • On your back. Lay on your back and rock your butt up, with your knees as far back as you can get them. Put 2-3 pillows below your lower back/butt cheeks to keep your body balanced backwards, Hold onto your ankles and use your lower back to push your butt in the air. In this position your hole is the most vulnerable it could be and most susceptible to his tongue, fingers and whatever else you wanted to get involved. Its also the easiest position to ‘open’ your hole, as the tipping backwards opens the ring (Just be careful about air going inside). This position translates VERY easily into the 69. Hint hint.
  • Face sitting. Most of the pleasure got from this position is the sheer audacity of it. With face-sitting you can the benefit of your partners jaw, stubble and bone structure alongside their tongue – all of which feels extra ticklish in this position. It also gives him the ability to get quite deep in you. Just be careful to try and give his nose some breathing space. Try and also use his chin as a perineum massager. This is also a great position to take care of your dick, so use your hands or maybe a masturbator? Leaning your body forward, you can take care of him too – 69 style. And of course, enjoy the view of his body.

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Face Sitting c/o Gay Gifts

  • Don’t rush it. Just because rimming can be part of foreplay, doesn’t mean it needs to be rushed. It serves two purposes: pleasure and preparation. It helps you relax for anal penetration, as well as waking up all of the sensitive nerve endings inside – which can be a little ‘stingy’ if you jump strange into anal.
  • Spread it. Use your hands to spread the butt cheeks apart – giving the tongue and lips the best access to your sweet spots. If he isn’t holding it open… make him.
  • Flavour? This isn’t for everyone but maybe include some flavours. We don’t recommend inserting food up there (ever) but try some flavoured lubricants, drinks (non fizzy) or maybe even some sauces. Just remember that this will all get sticky. Its inevitable and it doesn’t feel too pleasant.
  • Communicate. If he hits a sweet spot and then stops, tell him. Don’t be afraid to be vocal when being rimmed or rimming. Let him know what he’s doing right, this way he’ll perform better. Massage his ego just like you would his willy.

For more play techniques, keep an eye on the Clonezone blog.

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